I've been muted for no particular reason on my personal Realms server that I am paying for.  I can't post messages, make signs or even whisper.  I don't remember posting anything that might even be picked up on a censorship filter, though I've seen issues with the word West on this forum. 

How can I disable this feature for my adult only private server or at least pardon people so we can play the game?  This is extremely unprofessional and not at all a "feedback" issue.  Why should I pay Microsoft for a server if I can't have control of the chat in said server?

For clarification, I'm posting this in bug reporting for the following reasons:

There is no notification for my account that anything is wrong.

I have no recollection of saying anything to activate the filter

There are no settings in Realms and no console command to restore normal chat operations

There is extremely poor information regarding this update or what to DO about any of this.