This is a huge issue , I've seen tons of videos on it on YouTube, you cannot connect to a friends lobby. You can't join them and they can't join you, even if you try adding other friends and join their lobbies still doesn't work. For console there seems to be a problem with connecting to a friends lobby/server. I think this is a crucial problem and has a negative impact on the game. I'm sure I'm not the first to report this as there has been many videos talking about it after the bedrock update. Please fix and thank you for taking your time to read this.