Hi

so i was playing on my friends realm the other day. then i had to dissconect to do some stuff.

(i was alone, nobody was online that day. i asked the owner of the realm)

then i logged back on to minecraft to play. then i coudln't find the realm. it was like i never was invited. i knew the owner couldn't have kicked me since he was not home.

so i dm:ed him asking for a new invite. he said he sent one (this was around 11pm so it was late when he sent the invite)

so when i woke up i said i hadn't got one. 

i said i had changes my skin reacently and for him the invite face was my old skin. so i said. invite me again and see if the face changes. it did. i was still not getting the invite. i got in a discord call so he could show me his screen. it was me. spelled correctly. same skin. and i was on the invited list. so i got on minecraft. nothing. no pending invites nothing.

i was running 1.16.5 and he was. all default. no mods.
oh yeah, and my other friend who could join said he could join so it was my problem.

i tried every sulution. log out and in from my launcher. changing skin. anything thinkable. nothing worked. so here i am to ask for help.

i don't know how to recreate the glitch btw. i just happend