Xbox one realms and server won't show up it's been a month and tried to resolve the issue by fixing my setting but my settings are friendly base and I allow anybody to join and chat so that's  not the issue it just doesn't want to show my realm or even servers on my Xbox one and it annoying that I'm paying for it and I can't even play my realm that I have been working on for a couple of years please fix the issue with the Xbox one servers it's been a month and it still hasn't been fixed. I HAVE BEEN PLAYING FOR YEARS AND MY SETTING HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE SAME SO I DONT KNOW WHY THIS KEEPS POPPING UP

its just says 

you cannot play on realms because of how your Microsoft account is set up.see instructions for reviewing and changing your privacy setting at aka./MCMultiplayerhelp.