i bought bedrock mainly for the reason to be playing some good ol minecraft with friends who happened to be only playing the game on console (all ps4) to shake off the boredome from being quarantined, the thing is, i created an xbox account and added my friends and i could see them in_game, but when i try to join them it loads up for a couple of minutes and then shows (unable to connect to world) it's really REALLY frustrating considering I always wanted to play with my friends. they can join each other, but i can't. I'm not in the beta or something too. also another annoying thing is that I'm able to send invites but am not able to get notifications for invites. 

HELP