On all platforms I am unable to connect to the realm I own, my internet connection is stable and not slow. I have tried a few of the recommended fixes and nothing has worked. My friends were able to connect to it for a mintue but then it shut them out too.

The realm is open, I have changed my settings on all of the platforms to get it to work and no success. I'd really love to play on my realm before i have to pay for it again.